Born: January 23, 1919
Died: September 15, 2011 (at age 92)
Birthplace: Mannville, Alberta, Canada
Frances Evelyn Bay (née Goffman; January 23, 1919 - September 15, 2011) was a Canadian-American character actress.
She started her career as a professional performer in 1930s radio, did not enter the acting industry of television and film until 1976 while in her mid-50s, ultimately appearing in numerous roles, and best known for playing eccentric elderly women, particularly in Seinfeld and Happy Gilmore. She also worked in theatre, winning both the Drama-Logue and Gemini awards, respectively.
Bay was born Frances Evelyn Goffman in Mannville, Alberta, to Ukrainian Jewish immigrant parents, Ann (née Averbach) and Max Goffman, and was raised in Dauphin, Manitoba. Her younger brother was the noted sociologist Erving Goffman. Before World War II she acted professionally in Winnipeg and spent the war hosting the Canadian Broadcasting Company's radio show, Everybody's Program, aimed at service members overseas.
She married Charles Irwin Bay (born December 15, 1918 - died June 18, 2002) in 1946, and moved to Cape Town, South Africa, living in the Constantia and Camps Bay areas. She studied with Uta Hagen at this time. Charles and Frances Bay had one son, Josh (Eli Joshua; March 14, 1947 - June 6, 1970), who died at the age of 23.
She was inducted into Canada's Walk of Fame on September 6, 2008, in large part thanks to a petition with 10,000 names which was submitted on her behalf. The selection committee also received personal letters from Adam Sandler, Jerry Seinfeld, David Lynch, Henry Winkler, Monty Hall and other celebrities.
Bay did not appear in films until she got a small part in Foul Play, a 1978 comedy starring Goldie Hawn and Chevy Chase. A year earlier, she appeared as Mrs. Hamilton in the Christmas television special Christmastime with Mister Rogers. She went on to play small roles in films like The Karate Kid, Big Top Pee-wee and Twins.
Her first major television appearance occurred playing the grandmother to the character of Arthur Fonzarelli (aka "The Fonz") on Happy Days. She described Henry Winkler (who played Fonzarelli) as "just a sweet guy. He lost his own grandmother in the Holocaust, and he wrote me a letter saying I was his virtual grandmother". In 1983, she played the grandmother in Little Red Riding Hood in Faerie Tale Theatre for Showtime.
In 1986, Bay appeared as the doddery aunt of Kyle MacLachlan's character in David Lynch's Blue Velvet. This role seems to have endeared the actress to Lynch, who recast her in several subsequent works, including as a foul-mouthed madam in Wild at Heart, and as Mrs. Tremond on Twin Peaks and its movie spin-off, Twin Peaks: Fire Walk with Me.
In 1990, she had a small role in the Anjelica Huston-John Cusack vehicle, The Grifters. She appeared in two Stuart Gordon films: as a kindly witch in The Pit and the Pendulum, and as a fortune teller in Edmond, adapted from the David Mamet play.
She portrayed the grandmother of Adam Sandler's titular character in Happy Gilmore (1996). She appeared in the music video for Jimmy Fallon's comedy song, "Idiot Boyfriend". In 1994, she played Mrs. Pickman in John Carpenter's In the Mouth of Madness. She also played Thelma, the head security guard at the Bradford robotics laboratory in the film Inspector Gadget.
Bay appeared in the final episodes of three long-running sitcom series: Happy Days, Who's the Boss? and Seinfeld. Bay had the opportunity to play Cousin Winifred in the fourth to last episode of Road to Avonlea, a role for which she won a Gemini Award.
Bay was involved in an auto accident in 2002, and had to have her leg amputated; she was subsequently confined to a wheelchair. She died in Tarzana, California on September 15, 2011, of complications from pneumonia at the age of 92.